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True Kindness is ...  

2013-01-23 11:42:51|  分类: SQ: Selfless Quo |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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Kindness is always felt in the heart. You feel blessed with a kind heart. Every time, I am kind to someone even strangers, I feel good in my heart. This is the reason why I said, Kindness is give, give and give. Not about sow and reap. Why? The moment immediately after you have done a kind act, you had already reap the benefit of feeling good in your heart. I am puzzled by the simple idea that kindness must be rewarded and be rewarded in kind like money, or food or some form of tangible things.

Do people who are not doing a single act of kindness ever have a chance to feel good after helping someone? I am afraid he is more interested in harming his own wife and she doing her best to harm her husband. Do they realize by harming their own spouse, they had totally lost the feeling of kindness or love in their own heart? This sounds like a mysterious fact. Actually, it is not. They have lost the idea of what kindness is.

The worse result they can reap from sowing unkindness to their own spouse is no love or kindness in return, leading to hared, divorce and perhaps, killing each other. Do you want this to happen to you?

If not, please do a kind act a day, if not more than once.   

Please share this concept or idea of kindness far and wide.

God knows you are kind because He has given you a kind heart and you are using it generously. Does God has to give you something in return for you kindness showered upon others? Well, I can tell you this answer which comes from the bottom of my heart.

My wife, Sofia Margaretha is a very kind person. Once, she asked for my permission to buy two meat buns immediately after our dinner. I asked, "Do you know that meat bun contains pork fillings? You are a Muslim." She replied, "No, It is not for me. On my way here, I saw an old beggar. I am buying it for him."

Happily, she carried the two buns and raced ahead of me looking for the old beggar among a crowded Shenzhen street. However, she could not find him from among the crowd. Seeing her disappointed face, I advised her, "Go. Find the next beggar." She gave the buns to a poor young man who has lost a leg. He grabbed a bun and immediately put it into his mouth and munched away like a hungry wolf. He did not even say, “Thank you.”

I saw in her expression, she was very, very happy. She must be thinking, "Poor boy, you must have missed a meal for the last three days."

She offered kindness beyond her religious belief. What did she get in return? The broad kind smile that I saw in her face always reminded me, “This is the ONLY woman whom I want to live with all my life. If she can be so kind to a stranger, she can be many times kinder to me and my children. This is the wife that I shall cherish forever.”

Does she need God to reward her with anything else? Absolutely, no! All she needs is a husband who appreciates her kindness.    

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