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Who destroyed the pillars of a harmonious family?  

2012-10-24 17:13:46|  分类: SQ: Selfless Quo |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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Background concept: Three focuses and four virtues of the 21st century.

 

In the twenty-first century, this is a most neglected fact, that is, one’s focus of attention. To a modern lady, her three main focuses of attention should be her parents, her husband and her children. If a lady focuses on other temptations, family troubles needless to say, is a surety. What are these temptations? Fine wine, sexual satisfaction, gambling, drugs, violence, wealth, fame, just to name a few of them.

 

Likewise, when a man focuses of attention is his parents, wife and children, he should be able to enjoy a harmonious family life. If his focus on other temptations and hotly pursues wine and women, sexual satisfaction, gambling, drugs, violence, wealth, fame and etc., he is definitely lost and he loses his family as well. This is an irresponsible remarks or excuse: Because I want to provide you with a better living, I have to spend almost all my time to make more money, promotion and be famous one day.

 

What are four virtues for the 21st century?

 

1) 妇德 pronounced as fudeFaithful to your husband. Likewise, husband must be faithful to his wife. The best strategy to ensure faithfulness is to hold each other's hands all the time in the public. This tells everyone else that you are a pair of truly loving couple. The message is very clear to everyone else: “Please leave us alone. We do not entertain third party."

 

2) 妇言pronounced as fuyan: Soft spoken. It seems who speaks the loudest gets his way. But when you think carefully, who would like to be near the vicinity of the one who speaks the loudest and thus, ended up always being the sucker. No one likes to be the sucker especially, when he already knows the other party is a big mouth speaker and is domineering.

 

3) 妇容pronounced as furong: Tolerance. A wife must tolerate her husband behaviors and a husband must tolerate his wife behaviors, conditional upon their behaviors is not unkind towards her or him. Who likes to work with someone who has a low level of tolerance? Nobody would. To sleep with one who has a very low level of tolerance is even worse. It is utterly nightmarish!

 

4) 妇功pronounced as fugong: Diligent. Today, ladies cannot be merely diligent at home to take care of the household chores. She has to double up with a normal day job to supplement her husband’s income. This is the fault of the government whose ambition is to drive up the GDP at the expense of a harmonious family. With women at the work place fighting their very best to beat the glass ceiling, what we get is this unwanted result. The ladies today are less likely to pursue 妇德、妇言、妇容、妇功. As a consequence, what do you think the men will do when the ladies had lost all these four virtues? They went on to give themselves a very good excuse to ignore these four virtues.

 

Summing up, a government that drives for endless GDP growth is the culprit who breaks up the harmony in the family.

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